This 12 page document goes into detail regarding the potential shortcomings of the current guidelines and proposes some fixes. Below are the forward and table of contents.
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Child Support for Shared Custody– a Fair Approach
Brian Mull
Wichita, KS
September 15, 2010
Forward:
When discussing child support issues with anyone who either pays or receives it, there is usually a common consensus: parents who pay support, complain they pay too much, parents who receive support complain they don’t receive enough. The primary aim of this document is not to discount the importance of child support in Kansas, but to emphasize the importance of a
fair child support award – especially in shared custody cases. I acknowledge that Kansas is a deeply rooted income shares state. However, lack of sufficient adjustment provisions in an income shares model leads to unfair awards for families and can ultimately hurt our children. The parties effected by the award are not only the children and parents of the divorce.
In July 2010 I sent a letter to Mark Gleeson to pass on to the committee titled “Actual costs in Shared Residency,” which described some of the actual out of pocket expenses myself and other shared custodial parents actually incur on a regular basis. I demonstrated, briefly, how the current shared custody adjustment, which went into effect in 2008, has caused shared custodial parents, and their families, to bear a much larger financial burden than is necessary to provide reasonable resources for their child(ren). In this letter, I would like to provide further substantiation for my previous letter, explore the impacts of an unfair child support arrangement and, ultimately, offer some suggested changes from the point of view of shared custodial parents and their families.
Table of Contents
I.
Introduction
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II. Parenting Costs Research
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III. Cost Shares or Income Shares?
. 4
III.1 Proposed Changes:
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III.2 Example 1 of proposed changes
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III.3 Example 2 of proposed changes
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III.4 Example 3 of proposed changes
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III.5 Example 4 of proposed changes
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IV. Agreement by the parties
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IV.1 Proposed changes
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V. Who should be in control?
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V.1 Proposed Changes
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VI. What does the shared custody adjustments provide for?
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VI.1 Proposed Changes
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VII. Which formula?
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VII.1 Proposed Changes
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VIII. Where does the money go?
. 9
VIII.1 Proposed Changes
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IX. Paternity/Maternity vs. Divorce – What’s the difference?
. 10
X. Using Income of Spouse
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X.1 Proposed Changes
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XI. Conclusions
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XII. References
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I. Introduction No one can force a parent to spend more time with their child, however many studies show that children who have substantial access to both parents exude greater confidence, greater knowledge, and are more likely to succeed in life than those raised without access to both parents. There is an increasing number of parents in Kansas who recognize this fact. Every case and every child is different, but it appears Kansas Courts and case managers promote shared custody, or at least substantial parenting time for both parents, where reasonable and best for the child. In general, I believe this to be a step in the right direction.
The child support guidelines must accurately and fairly account for the fact that parents who are awarded substantial parenting time with their child(ren) also assume substantially greater financial responsibilities. They key word is “substantial”. Most references define “substantial” to be somewhere between 25%-33% of overnights or 24-hr periods. Obviously shared custody (50%) is as substantial as any parent could get without taking over as the primary residential parent (51%). Currently the Kansas Child Support Guidelines do not sufficiently differentiate between a parent offering half of his/her family’s time and resources to better the life of his/her child and a parent who wishes very minimal contact with his/her child. This sends the wrong message to both the children and the parents of Kansas.
II. Parenting Costs Research Reference 4 presents the basis for the current Kansas Child Support Guidelines. Expenditures proportion information provided in reference 4 is reproduced in (Figure 1). Note, the data in Figure 1 is for intact husband-wife families, however, “expenses on a child in single-parent families generally followed the same pattern as expenses on a child in husband-wife families,” (ref 4).

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“The parent with whom the child does not reside the majority of the time may incur transportation, food, and entertainment expenses during visitation days and maintain a larger living unit because the child stays with him or her on weekends. The noncustodial parent could also contribute to the child’s clothing and health care expenses” (ref. 4). For shared custodial parents, parenting time is split equally between parents, as are many of these costs. Some costs simply offset for 50/50 residency - housing, food, transportation, clothing, and miscellaneous costs. This equals 75% of the total child-rearing cost.
Both parents should also pay for half of all healthcare costs. Some families (mine included) do not incur any child care costs. However, when daycare providers are hired to care for the child(ren), the additional amount is always ordered by the Court in addition to child support. So child care should not be included in the basic child support figure (I believe this is already the case with the Kansas tables). Only education and healthcare costs are left for litigation.
“The intact family standard of living can only be maintained for the custodial parent by creating a heavier (disproportionate) financial burden for the non-custodial parent. This can be done only by having the child support award dramatically exceed actual child costs. This creates an extraordinary benefit for the custodial parent and an extraordinary burden for the non-custodial parent.” (Ref. 3). The level at which both parents actually split costs in a shared custody case, indicate the 20% adjustment should be closer to 80%.
III. Cost Shares or Income Shares? Kansas has used the income shares or the estimated spending method since inception of the guidelines. There are advantages and disadvantages to this approach. The basic advantage of this method is simplicity. The basic child support amount can be determined in minutes and simple adjustments can be utilized to make sure the award is fair. This method also has the theoretical advantage of reducing any potential rebuttals in the Court room because the method is based almost solely on income which can usually be easily documented using a W-2 or form 1040. However, the disadvantage of this approach is that it most likely will not accurately account for true costs for the child which can lead to insufficient or excessive awards.
The cost shares model also has advantages and disadvantages. The cost shares model will accurately account for each child’s out of pocket expenses, but may lack the detail to account for indirect costs such as transportation and housing. The cost shares model may be somewhat more complicated if too many costs are considered. However, in a shared residency (50/50) situation, many indirect costs are incurred by both parents equally, so these costs offset. Cost shares would be the most accurate, but can be somewhat complicated for families who don’t offset many costs.
“The best method to estimate child expenditures is to simply ask parents what the costs are. The cost shares guideline better than any other child support guideline methodology most closely follows this concept of using actual data on child cost expenditures compared to other methodologies such as the Engel version of income shares or the Rothbarth version of income shares.” (ref. 3)
The biggest concern with the cost shares method appears to be that it will fuel further litigation. “The cost sharing approach using actual expenditures inherently encourages
litigation by requiring case-by-case determinations.” (ref. 5) To some extent, this may be correct, but child support is litigated all the time either way. Income shares states probably spend the most time litigating correct reporting of income. States using some form of cost shares likely see more litigation on the actual costs. Either way, litigation will occur, but which method is most accurate when considering a shared custody case? Based on the information presented herein, there should be few costs to consider in a shared residency case because most costs simply offset. Therefore it may be just as easy, yet more accurate, to simply use actual costs in shared residency cases.
III.1 Proposed Changes: Cases where both parents spend significant parenting time (44/56, 50/50) with their child(ren) should adopt an actual cost-shares method to most accurately account for expenditures. Since most costs are offset, this leaves very little to account for in a cost-shares approach. Costs for housing, transportation, food, clothing, and other such costs should not be considered when determining the child support award, especially when incomes are within 30% of eachother.
Since the committee is, from most indications, steadfast in the use of an income shares approach, the adjustment for significant parenting time and shared residency cases should consider the following:
1.) Calculate the basic child support amount per appendix II of reference (1)
2.) Eliminate offsetting costs per reference 4 and additional costs which are not part of the basic support figure. This means that transportation, food, housing, clothing, misc., and healthcare, costs are eliminated (83%). Childcare and education are left (child care costs should probably be eliminated from this calculation as well, but for simplicity we’ll leave it). Therefore, take 17% of the value in appendix II of the guidelines.
3.) Divide this number by 2 rather than income proportion because both parents are equally responsible for education and related costs (school supplies).
4.) Add back in any child care, healthcare, sports, and other costs the Court deems necessary, prorated over 12 months
5.) Parent A shall pay parent B for 1 year and then roles switch for the following year (along with tax deduction alternation). Alternating annually as opposed to semiannually, as mentioned in reference 5 on page 136, is a better approach because costs throughout the year will vary (taxes, swim lessons, holidays, etc…). Annual alternation guarantees that both parents will realize the full cost or benefit through the year.
This method will lead to lower income families providing less money for their child and higher income families providing more, which is consistent with all income shares research.
III.2 Example 1 of proposed changes This example assumes the following:
Shared Custody of 16 year old child attending public school.

III.3 Example 2 of proposed changes This example assumes the following:
Shared Custody of 16 year old child attending public school.

III.4 Example 3 of proposed changes This example assumes the following:
Shared Custody of 16 year old child attending public school.

III.5 Example 4 of proposed changes This example assumes the following:
Shared Custody of two 3 year old children attending public school.

IV. Agreement by the parties Of any cases considered here, the Kansas Child Support guidelines have only been used in a case where parents cannot agree on a child support amount. Any parties agreeing to a child support amount or other arrangement would not need to refer to the child support guidelines, so therefore this language is unnecessary. On line III.B.7.a.2 of the guidelines (ref. 1) it is stated that the parties must have already executed a “detailed written agreement.” The parties would not be arguing the matter of child support before the Court if child support was an agreed upon matter and would likely not be referring to the guidelines. Since, the Court retains full jurisdiction over child support matters and makes decisions as to what is best for the child, this should be removed from the guidelines.
If the obligee is faced with a decision to receive $100/month in child support and agree to share direct expenses (see reference 1) vs. receiving $900/month in child support, of course the obligee in this case would likely not agree to share direct expenses. In this case, based on the current guidelines, the Court must grant the obligee the $900/month award.
IV.1 Proposed changes Any language in the guidelines which implies that the parties must agree or an agreement must be reached before the Court can order such, should be removed.
V. Who should be in control? Currently, the method by which the Court determines which parent is in full control of the finances for a child is by which one has the larger share of parenting time. But, for parenting time shares near 50/50, this is determined by which parent has the least income. In most cases, which ever parent makes the least is granted a child support award, and thus, awarded financial responsibility of the child. This is unfair to the child, teaches the child to favor one parent over the other, and creates an unfair situation for the child(ren) and the obligor. There are a number of reasons the current determining method is unfair, a few are listed below:
- The current guidelines imply the obligee is supposed to sign the child up for school, sports, activities, purchase clothing, make appointments, send lunch money, etc… rather than sharing these duties (and the associated costs).
o Schools, doctors, coaches, etc… will many times only talk with the parent who “payed” and signed the child up. I once had to write a notarized letter and mail my Court order to a daycare provider simply to access attendance records for my son who I have always had joint legal custody of. Mother listed Dad at the very bottom of the 6 line emergency contact list, and school papers were only sent home with the parent signing the child up. I was not allowed to change any paperwork with the school because I had not payed and signed our son up.
o The payor is not granted the opportunity to make decisions in his/her child’s life. Joint legal custody is “supposed” to allow both parents to make decisions, however, when the funds are already in the hand of the obligee and decisions are made without the consultation of the obligor, the obligor must now either forget about the incident, or pay even more to litigate the issue.
o Should one parent simply pay more out of pocket to try to be involved? Should that parent then request reimbursement? I have personally requested reimbursement for some of these costs – my request was met with a threat to file a motion to increase the child support award.
- Decisions as to what the child will wear, what activities the child participates in, etc… is determined by the obligee… There is no accounting for where the child support funds go, so there is no mechanism in place to govern whether the child is actually receiving appropriate support.
- If the obligee is unemployed, the current guidelines merely encourage him/her to enter the Court room every year to seek a higher Child support award based on the obligor’s likely annual raises.
Any child support award should be alternated annually between parents. Since a child support award will create some level of favor toward one parent over the other, the only way to offset this is to allow both parents the opportunity to provide all forms of care (school sign-ups, school supplies, sports sign-ups, activity supplies, etc…)
V.1 Proposed Changes Both parents should be in control. The only way to ensure both parents retain equal right and responsibility to their child and the decisions made on their behalf is to alternate the obligor/obligee roles. I believe that if this is done fairly, the Court will find more parents choosing to determine their own child support amount, and less parents entering the Court room to litigate child support.
VI. What does the shared custody adjustment provide for? Currently shared custodial child support payors receive a 20% adjustment in child support per section IV.E.2 of the child support guidelines. Where does the 20% number come from? Depending on parenting time share, the parenting time adjustment values are listed as 5%, 10%, 15%, and 20%. However, there is no reference to the basis of these values and what they are supposed to provide for (i.e. food, clothing, housing, transportation, etc…). In section II.A, it is stated that child support is “not limited to direct expenses for food, clothing, school, and entertainment. Child support is also to be used to provide for housing, utilities, transportation, and other indirect expenses related to the day-to-day care and well-being of the child.” However, in section III.B.7.a.2.a is it stated that for parties who
agree to share direct expenses, “expenses include, but are not limited to, clothing and education expenses, but do not include food, transportation, housing, or utilities.” Therefore, based on the current 20% shared custody adjustment provision, child support in shared custody does provide the obligee with additional funds for transportation, housing, utilities, clothing, etc…Even with both parents making the same income, living in identical homes, one parent will be paying for the other parent’s home and other such expenses. Does this include some level of extracurricular activities (i.e. sports, music/dance lessons, camps, etc…)?
VI.1 Proposed Changes Clarify which costs the parenting time adjustments cover, and what each parent may be responsible for. Obviously if things like sports and activities are included in the basic support figure, these costs should not be added to the basic support amount
VII. Which formula? Why does paragraph III.B.7 state that parents “should consider requesting a parenting time adjustment…rather than use the shared expense formula?” Each family is different – activities are different, travel needs are different, schools are different, etc… It would be fair to both parties to allow either party to present actual cost information to the Court and allow the Court to decide. The currently guidelines nearly explicitly tell the Court to use only the shared expense formula.
VII.1 Proposed Changes If both the shared expense formula and cost sharing methods are presented and a difference of greater than 300% is seen, the cost sharing method should be used instead.
VIII. Where does the money go? First and foremost, the Court’s responsibility should be to provide for children of separated families and ensure they do not go without. Currently there is no mechanism by which the Court can ensure that children are cared for with child support funds. Awarding a parent $1000 every month (assuming shared custody) and asking them to please use every penny on their child is not reasonable. It appears as if the solution has been to increase the award and hope that more of the money reaches the child(ren). I have spoke with many parents which indicate a complete disregard for responsibility with child support funds. Money is spent on anything from long vacations (without the child), new televisions and electronics, to fingernails and elective surgical procedures (not for the child).
Too much money can create just as many problems. I know that if I hand my child $10 and request him/her purchase a loaf of bread that costs $1.89, I may receive a package of hotdog buns and about $5.00 change. After some discussion, I may later learn that a candy bar and a soda pop were purchased. Now, if I perform the same exercise except either A.) I request a full accounting of all expenditures, or B.) I send him/her with $2.00 instead of $10.00, I will find that a much higher percentage of money went toward the intended purchase.
Now consider the same scenario except the child is given $1.75 to purchase a loaf of bread that costs $1.89. Not having additional money to even consider purchasing unneeded items, the child not only finds the requested loaf of bread, but finds it on sale and saves money.
My point is that by increasing the child support award, children are not necessarily guaranteed to receive what is needed. A further point is that a lower child support award does not necessarily lead to a socially and emotionally challenged child. I believe a spoiled child can sometimes fair worse in life than other children who have had to work hard for everything they have. The Court’s primary interest should be the quality of life for the children. Quality of life is not measured in dollars.
VIII.1 Proposed Changes There should be more responsibility on the part of the obligee and the Court when child support awards are very large to ensure the children are being taken care of. For high child support awards, the obligor should be able to request an accounting of how the money is being used to care for the child(ren).
IX. Paternity/Maternity vs. Divorce – What’s the difference? In last session’s meeting minutes, a statement was made that cost sharing probably wouldn’t work for shared custodial parents. What is the basis for this statement? Is it assumed that unmarried parents disagree or agree on issues any more or less than married parents? Research has shown that the one of the most common reason for divorce is money and management thereof. If divorced parents disagree on money before divorce, why would it be assumed they could agree on financial issues regarding their children in a time when both are financially and emotionally taxed? Further, many times only one spouse pays bills and knows the details of the family finances. Therefore, the other spouse would be left to learn quickly after the divorce. Divorced couples do not make any better or worse decisions regarding the financial requirements for their child(ren) than unmarried parents. Since there is no standard parenting manual, every parent must be proactive, learn quickly, and adjust.
X. Using Income of Spouse This issue has been brought up for years in surveys and comments to the committee. I believe if either parent quits work, it must be substantiated how they are supporting themselves. Income must be coming in somehow if they are supporting themselves and their children. If they have quit work because they prefer to live off the income of a spouse, that spouse’s income should then be used as the basis for child support. Based on the current guidelines, the residential parent is encouraged to quit his/her job for such reasons because their child support payment either increases or is so minimally affected, it can be reasoned not to seek employment.
X.1 Proposed Changes The guidelines should require that the DRA submitted by the obligee shall be fully substantiated if there is no income. Example – if the obligee claims a $1000/mo mortgage payment and $800/mo in child care fees, but has no income, it should be substantiated as to how this obligee would make this mortgage payment without income as child support should only account for a portion of these costs, not 100% of them. At this point, the Court should require income records of the spouse as well.
XI. Conclusions The Kansas Child Support Guidelines create an undue financial burden on shared custodial parents. I have offered the insight of a number of shared custodial parents here, have provided research, examples, and substantiation for these. It is requested that the committee consider adopting either an actual cost method or a revised shared custody adjustment provision to the current income shares method in shared custody cases and any case where both parents spend significant parenting time with their child(ren). The adjustment method proposed herein could possibly be referred to as a hybrid method which considers both income shares as well as additional sharing of costs for healthcare, childcare, and other related expenses. Using actual costs is more straight forward. Regardless of the method used to determine the amount, it should be alternated annually to allow both parents equal opportunity to provide for their child(ren). This is the only fair way.
Thank you for your time and consideration
XII. References 1 “Kansas Child Support Guidelines,” Pursuant to Kansas Supreme Court Administrative Order No. 216, Amended November 30, 2007
2 Mull, B., “Actual Costs in Shared Residency,” July, 2010.
3 Rogers, R. Mark, “The Cost Shares Child Support Guideline – A Common Sense and Economics Based Improvement Over the Income Shares Guideline,” February 7, 2001.
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http://www.guidelineeconomics.com/files/KY_ResponseToPSI.pdf)
4 Lino, Mark, “Expenditures on Children by Families, 2009,” U.S. Department of Agriculture Center for Nutrition Policy and Promotion, June, 2010.
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http://www.cnpp.usda.gov/Publications/CRC/crc2009.pdf)
5 Linda Henry Elrod, “Kansas Child Support Guidelines: An Elusive Search for Fairness in Support Orders”, 27 WASHBURN. L. J. 104, 120-25 (1987) (
http://www.washburnlaw.edu/faculty/elrod-linda-fulltext/1987-27washburnlawjournal104.pdf)