Ok great material here so how do I make sure I get in writing a shared residency, becuase my ex already agreed with an almost equal block parenting plan, We are getting along great for the best interest of our duaghter and dcf has already approved an order. Is the shared residency to be stated in the decree? is it it a form? Whats the actual proof for me to have. it my possesion? Im confused becuz all I read the decree is "joint leagal custody."Is it the parenting plan that I submitted is that my proof?