Unfortunately your situation is all too common among KS fathers.  The state and the child support committee still hasn't quite caught on that fathers actually help balance the family and should not be treated simply as the cash cow.  Jealous and vindictive mothers should banned from having primary custody because they actually harm the kids by alienating them from their father.  I've been through the same thing and I know many other fathers on here have as well.

We'd like to help more.  Can you give some details on your specific situation?  What have you been through so far?  How long have you been involved in CS and custody?  What county are you in?

Sorry to hear that.  Parental alienation is a very real thing that many families have to deal with.  To be honest, many separated parents don't understand that they already do many things to alienate the other parent unintentionally.  I think there's a lack of education and a lack of consequences for these activities.  These types of behaviors are so devastating to children, it's hard to understand.  But, there are always 2 sides to every story, and there's usually more things going on than just lies to keep a parent away.

I've been in your shoes.  It's so easy to give up and give in.  And albeit sometimes its the best thing.  But, as you can already see, the kids may be set up for a lifetime of resentment if the record isn't set straight.  You can't set the record straight to a child by telling them, you have to show them.  If the kids are taught that a parent won't feed them and they won't have fun, then take the kids out to eat and take them to play mini golf or something fun.  Positive contact is the only way to battle parental alienation in a child's mind.  Court is another issue.